Though I'd feel the same way had I been in her position, what she said really hit me that day. I felt sad for our nieces and nephews since themeparks were a big, exciting part of my own childhood, and I felt a little guilty since we'd already taken our small children to Disneyland, Universal Orlando, Lagoon, and Wild Waves. As I mused on this I remembered that while Oscar was growing up also in a family of six kids, his uncle Dale would fly each child out to his home in southern California and take them for a trip to Disneyland the year they turned 10. We'd felt for some time that we'd like to pay it forward and give our nieces and nephews something similar to look forward to whenever we had the means to do so. At that point I'd just had a miscarriage from our first frozen embryo transfer, but we still had a chance to have another baby with our final frozen embryo. That attempt was going to be completely out of pocket, so taking a cousin to a destination themepark with us probably wasn't on the immediate horizon.
Months passed, our FET cycle failed, and the $4000 we'd just spent was definitely going to prevent us from visiting any sort of resort that required an airplane, rental car, and hotel stays. However, our friend Wray had recently moved to Helena, Montana, and I'd heard good things about Silverwood Themepark, which is located about halfway between us and Helena. I knew Oscar missed his running buddy and wanted to run a race with him again, so I suggested we drive to Montana and visit Silverwood Themepark on our way back. Now that I wasn't pregnant and wouldn't be getting pregnant, I really wanted to take a road trip to a themepark with my kids, something that wouldn't have been very enjoyable while pregnant or with a needy newborn.
We did visit Silverwood, and I loved it immediately! There's a nice charm to it as soon as you walk in. It has some great thrill rides, plenty of family and kids' rides, and there's a fabulous waterpark too. We thoroughly enjoyed our two days there, but we weren't able to do everything we wanted to do since our kids needed a significant break from the stimulation both days. I figured we'd have to spend 3 days there to fit everything in next time. Buying our previous tickets online automatically signed me up for their promotional email, and in November I saw an advertisment offering early bird season passes for only $99. That's less than a 3 day ticket, so we went ahead and purchased them.
This past April we visited Utah again during Tyler's spring break, but it was a bit of a letdown. The weather was rainy and dreary, Oscar's parents were busy, and we didn't get a whole lot of time with cousins since they were still in school. Emily's kids all contracted RSV that week, so our time with them was even more limited. I wanted the kids to have a bit more time with family, but our next break wasn't until June 26th, and we really don't like trading our lovely PNW summers for high 90's and hundreds in Utah. Our kids aren't used to that kind of heat, and Tyler especially sunburns easily. When we have visited, they end up spending far too much time sitting around the house with air conditioning. I have to make them to go outside.
I started brainstorming ideas about somewhere we could meet up with Granny and Grandpa Hunt in the summer when I remembered we had Silverwood passes. I also remembered that they'd brought the oldest Anderson cousins with them when they went to the Flinders Family reunion in Walla, Walla. Since that's a fairly comparable drive for them as driving to Silverwood, I asked if they'd want to meet us there and if they'd feel comfortable bringing some cousins along with them. By now we'd recovered financially from the cost of our out of pocket embryo transfer, and we didn't have to worry about any children younger than Allison. Now it was doable, now we could afford it, now was our chance to pay it forward like Oscar's uncle, especially since their oldest had turned 10 years old that year. The kids might have been asking for Disneyland, but I imagine that's only because it's what their friends are talking about. As far as I knew none of these kids had ever been to a themepark of any kind. For a kid who's never been to a themepark, Silverwood would be just as fun as Disney (and a LOT more affordable).
While granny and grandpa were thinking about it I got on Silverwood's website to research ride height requirements and hovered over a tab that says "contests and fun." Along the menu something called "Family-A-Day" caught my eye. I clicked on it and saw "Do you have a family in mind that deserves a fun-filled day at Silverwood Theme Park? Enter that family into our contest and they could receive some well-deserved tickets!" Now I rarely enter contests since the chances of winning are slim and I don't like inviting more advertisements into my email, but this wasn't just a random drawing. This one allowed me to write a couple paragraphs about why I thought a family deserved free tickets. I immediately thought "wouldn't it be great if Emily's entire family could all come to the themepark?" I wrote a condensed version of what I've just explained here, and within 2 days I got an email from a representative saying they'd won the contest! I was so excited I ran up to my husband in tears! We didn't have to pick only 2 cousins. They'd all get to go, even their parents!
I asked the representative if I could have a couple days to get some things figured out before they sent Emily's family their winning email. I highly doubted they'd ever heard of Silverwood. I worried if they got an email saying they'd won free tickets to some random place in north Idaho they'd just assume it was spam and delete it. We told Oscar's mom first to see if they could commit to coming and helping out with the kids. Once we had them on board, Oscar called Emily's husband Ryan and Ryan told Emily. It took a while to set some dates and have a plan in place, but once we did they shared the news with their kids. Here's how they reacted.
Dylan's enormous gasp when she says they're going to spend two days there is my favorite part!
They won one free day, but we all decided it'd be good if they had a little more time to really take it all in. We wanted to go as soon as possible, but Tyler had school until Tuesday the 25th. The original plan was for them to leave Monday, stay a night in Butte, Montana, arrive Tuesday, and go to the park Wednesday and Thursday. However as the date got closer and the weather forecast became more accurate, Thursday looked like it'd be rainy and cooler (67 degree high) while Tuesday and Wednesday looked warm and sunny. Even Wednesday was a little iffy with a decent chance of thunderstorms in the late afternoon, so I recommended they come to the park as soon as they could on Tuesday and take advantage of Silverwood's discount admission after 4pm. Oscar's parents generously offered to cover our lodging, and we booked a house on airbnb that would house all 14 of us.


Our family arrived around 3:15pm and went right to the waterpark. I don't have many pictures since I was busy taking Allison around the lazy river, but here are the kids sunbathing while we waited for the rest of the family to arrive. Oscar caught a butterfly on his finger.

From there Grandpa Hunt and I took the kids on a few rides over at Garfield's summer camp while Oscar ordered pizza and Ryan and Emily got their little ones changed and taken care of. We started off on the butterfly swing. Bonnie was not a fan, but everyone else loved it.

Oscar texted to let us know the pizza was ready so we walked back to the restaurant. Two pizzas was pretty much perfect for our group. Dillan and I had finished before some of the others and asked if he could go do Aftershock. I took him down and we ended up doing Aftershock, Spincycle, and Panic Plunge before Ryan and Oscar caught up with us at Tremors while everyone else went on kids' rides. Dillan was getting a bit motion sick by then, so I took a cue from grandpa and told him I'd pay him $20 if he threw up (he didn't).
On our way out we got ice cream, Allison cuddled with granny, and the kids had fun running through the big tunnel leading out to the parking lot.






While the boys waited in a long, slow line for the bumper boats, Emily got in line for the ferris wheel with Bonnie and Mary. Bonnie didn't want to do it so I took her over to the Climbing Trees play area.






We all rode the log flume then walked over to the waterpark.
Granny and Grandpa met up with us after our waterpark fun. Emily had been meeting up with them to give them their tickets while Ryan and Dillan were off doing some slides, so Martha and I were left with Justin, Mary, Bonnie, and Tyler just sitting around wiating for Ryan to bring back their clothes. We didn't know how long they'd be (for all we knew they were still swimming), so rather than sitting around we walked them over to the magic show and wrapped them up in extra towels. This was a different magician than the one we'd seen in May, but I thought his show was just as good. Allison still talks about how "the magic man ate the fire!" The big tricks were largely the same, but he didn't use an assistant, so he levitated himself and made himself disappear with the help of stage hands.


Oscar, Tyler Dillan, and Ryan went over to Timber Terror while Emily, granny, grandpa, and I took the other kids back to Garfield's Summer Camp. Allison at one point ran off and grabbed the hand of some mom in another family. She would have been more than happy to just hang out and play with them, but fortunately that family brought her back over to us. Sometimes that's the danger with too any adults. Everyone assumes someone's keeping an eye on whichever kid you can't see at the moment.
I sat next to Justin on the butterfly swing when he saw the paratrooper and said "I wish I could ride the paratrooper. I wish my mom would let me!" Emily had just been concerned that some of the faster rides would upset him, but she wasn't against him going, so he and I headed over there. While we were on the paratrooper he said "I wish I could ride a roller coaster. I wish my mom would let me," so we met up with Ryan and the rest on Timber Terror. They'd just done it, but they decided to do it again and Justin rode with his dad. He loved it! He gave us a big thumbs up when we asked him what he thought of it afterwards.









And they saw a deer.
Eventually the sun came out so we took kids to the fun park we'd discovered on our last trip here.
The girls found the splashpark.




That evening we took Tyler, Dillan, and Justin over to the nearby indoor waterpark - Raptor Reef. They discount admission after 6. It was fun, but it paled in comparison to Boulder Beach. There were 4 slides, including one that has a big bowl like you're being flushed down a toilet. There's a wavepool too, but it's small and the waves are gentle, not like the great waves at Silverwood. There wasn't much in the way of lines, so we all went down the slides many times and definitely made it worth the money. We finished up around 8:30pm and the boys gave each other taffy eyes while we ordered pizza.


And the next morning Oscar and I took all the cousins over to the neighborhood park while Ryan, Emily, Marcus, and Martha finished packing and loading up.
On our drive back we made our usual stop for food in Moses Lake, WA then made the rest of the drive without stopping. I always love seeing this view of the gorge when we pass through.