Allison went up to a birthday party going on at a park and stole a cupcake from off the table. She dropped it on the ground and cried, so they gave her a new one. One of these days this girl won't be able to get by on her charms...
Whenever Allison puts on a dress now she says "I'm being a princess!" It started the very first time when she put on her silver dress this day.At the end of June we could finally visit the Forest Park petting zoo. The pony rides weren't quite open yet, so we came back again the next week.


Sliding at the Bothell YMCA

Allison would get done, say "Wanna go down the slide and say 'whee'!" and then go right back up again.


Tyler making tithing groups with his Sunday school class and Allie sporting her sunglasses.


Swinging at Lake Stickney park! We're wearing jackets because it was only 58 degrees and cloudy on July 1st!




Sweet kiddos! I love my morning cuddles.
Allison's tongue hangs out while she runs around the playground, just like a puppy.


Swinging and splashing in the backyard!

Tyler wearing daddy's shirt and climbing at the Mill Creek YMCA


The kids got Butterfly and Dragonfly balloons at the Northshore YMCA benefit.


They also played lots of carnival games and got a small prize with each one. We did quite a bit since someone gave us extra tickets.
Allison loved the live 2 man band. She was busy jamming to the music.
The kids did arts and crafts with daddy while I had my face painted with one of the extra tickets.
Fun at home with daddy man!


Silver Lake is a great park, but it was challenging this summer since Allison struggled to stay in one area at a time. She wanted to go back and forth between the playground and the lake, which just doesn't work with outfits, shoes, and diaper changes.
I love when cute but too small dresses can turn into shirts. In these pictures Allison's wearing what was a new 18 month dress with hand me down 3T shorts that match perfectly.
Ty's really into making things from our extra boxes these days.
Sometimes we'd visit the museum after getting lunch in the adventure zone at the Everett YMCA.


At one point Tyler pulled down his pants in the playground and was about to pee on the woodchips. I stopped him just in time. He was screaming that he really had to go, and Allison was running away from me, so I picked him up and put him on the grass and told him to go there since I knew I'd never make it to the bathrooms with both kids. At least he didn't pee in the playground!




My girl is a great cuddler!
This boy makes me smile and blows me away with his creativity everyday! One afternoon he asked me if he could play on his tablet, and I told him he could after he built me something. He excitedly exclaimed "I'm going to build a jail for my Zoobs!" and then immediately went and did it. His ADHD medication had worn off and I was pretty late on giving him his second dose, so he cried and wailed because it wasn't holding together exactly the way he wanted it to. When he goes into that zone he refuses to let me help and yells at me and fights me when I offer any sort of suggestion no matter how kindly. He was keeping Allison from falling asleep with his loud, physical fit, which was REALLY frustrating me. In the past I would have scolded him or given him a time out or made some other forceful attempt to make it stop. Instead I let Allison play for a little bit and said "Tyler, you seem sad. Can I give you a huggie and help you feel happy again?" I then rocked him in her rocking chair and told him "I know you're frustrated that your jail doesn't look the way you want it to, but I'm just so proud of you for making it! These wonderful ideas just pop into your head and then you instantly know how to make them real. It's amazing! I love watching you build, I love seeing you learn, and I love watching you make your ideas come to life! Thank you for making me a mommy. Thank you for being my sweet guy. I love you so, so much." Tyler was now smiling and calm and asked again if he could play his tablet, so I gave it to him. And now that he wasn't making lots of noise right outside her door, I was able to help Allison settle down enough to fall asleep.
I took Allison to the park one day while Tyler was at Occupational Therapy and met a mom with a 2 1/2 year old who reminded me a LOT of little Tyler. Not once did she sit down. She was constantly intereracting with and entertaining him, she had to follow him around and physically prevent him from pushing around the other kids, her gentle verbal attempts at behavioral correction were completely useless, and she'd give a LOT of explanation to other parents about how he doesn't know his own strength and doesn't mean to hurt others. It was like looking at myself 2-3 years ago. When he started targeting Allison I told her my 5 year old son was actually at occupational therapy right then for similar issues he'd had at that age and said "I get it." We talked some more, and I asked her if she'd heard about special education preschool, which she hadn't. She'd heard of ADHD and sensory processing issues, both of which she suspects her son has, but she knew her boy was too young for an official evaluation and diagnosis and was clearly feeling like she had no resources to turn to right now. I told her she could contact the special education department of her school district (which I wish I'd done earlier), and that if he qualified for services they could do in home visits even before he's old enough for preschool. She had the same look on her face that I did when someone first told me about it, that look of hope and relief that someone besides you might be able to handle your child and get him to stop hurting other kids. I'm so grateful for everything we've learned, for those who've reached out to us, and for all the resources we've discovered on our journey. It felt great to be able to pay it forward!




Cute kids eating popsicles.


Tyler made the green one for himself and Oscar made him one too. He was not a fan of Oscar's!
Tyler playing kickball baseball and cute Allison doing the freeze dance.


And some of cute Tyler too. Here he is actually sleeping and pretending to sleep on the stairs.
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